BDSM or D/s is something for real people. I get really annoyed by the art and stories written with a male bias. As if all the women involved are sex toys for men to jerk off with. Or, the men are poor, pathetic knobs at the mercy of huge and nasty women. No wonder few women think of D/s as something they can find a place in when our place in D/s is shown as a beast of burden like a cow or a psycho bitch rather than a real woman with a mind of her own, her own style and a body shaped by life not fantasy.
