Dressing Up Your Little Man

There are all kinds of control. One is choosing what your sub wears, or doesn't wear. Men may assume you will pick out something sexy or something fetishy. Why not pick out something colourful, stylish, something like a really nice suit and tie?

Men don't tend to wear pretty colours. How about this Spring green tie? The dark shirt sets it off. It's pretty and yet not girly looking. I really like this look. Why not dress your little man up, pick his look for the day in order to please yourself. It's not an abuse of power... he says he wants to please you after all. This just isn't something he was expecting.

Keep him on his toes... pick out new shoes too. What about those old fashioned lace up leather shoes with wing tips? Maybe a shirt with bright polka dots? Wouldn't he look nice if he were dressed in a few bright, happy, Spring colours?

Boudoir Photography

I read an ad for a photographer offering a discount if you arrange a boudoir photo session next week. I guess they are hoping for quantity. I'd like to go but I'm already busy. Besides I'd need more time to think about what I want to wear, shave areas I don't always care to shave, that sort of thing. But, it would be fun to take some sensual, sexy photos with a professional some time. Doing it yourself is fun but can't compare to someone who knows how to use lighting and posing to your advantage.

Vampy

Another from Hips and Curves. This one is even on sale right now. But, I'm not likely to wear a miniskirt.

Sexy Witch

From Hips and Curves. I remember finding something good there before.

Are Nice Girls Dommes?

Commented in Chastity Fantasies of an Obsessive Compulsive :  a post about nice girls and the low percentage of Dommes.

Do Nice Girls Wear Leather?


I'm a nice girl. My brother introduces me as the "nice sister" though he has 3 sisters. I babysit for my other sister, even when I don't really and truly want to. I smile at people just to bring more smiles into the world. I really believe it is so easy to be negative and so important to be optimistic and positive in the world. There has to be a balance.

And yet, having said (or typed) all of that... I am Domme. I have such a good time being wicked and evil in this way. Maybe it's because I am so nice. It does get a bit tiring being nice. It is particularly annoying the way people assume someone nice is easy to take advantage of and gullible. Maybe being a Domme is my bit of payback. As we all know... payback is a bitch.

I don't know about wearing leather. I am a BBW. I haven't bought fetish wear before. I do like showing cleavage sometimes. With a lot of cleavage to show I am select about how much and where I show it. Leather is kind of expensive to try and find I don't care for it. I'm not overly fond of tight clothing. I enjoy romantic looking clothes more than dark and leathery.

Writing this was so much fun I am going to post it to my own blog now. :)

Silky Things

Two more from Hips and Curves. White silky one and a black silky one.

Top of the Hat

This hat comes from Hips and Curves. I've always wanted a top hat sort of thing.

The Steampunk Corset

Steampunk Corset from Corset.net - The problem I have seen with corsets for full figured women is the tendency for them to flip up at the bottom. I had to wear a bridesmaid dress which had a corset quality. Every time I sat down I had my dress flip up to the level of my boobs. As much as I like the idea of corsets I have mixed feelings about ever actually wearing one again. Though I do have great boobs for corset wearing.