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Showing posts with label Confinement. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Confinement. Show all posts
06 June 2011
30 May 2011
Suit in a Cage
A little play on words. They suit being in a cage and they are wearing a suit, while in a cage. I like the circus cage on wheels. He could really be put on display this way. Mobile. Close your eyes and you will open them to a big surprise! 
09 April 2011
Vocal Restraints
Originally posted to Adult BackWash: Tuesday June 22, 2004
Cruising around, looking at useless stuff today and I came across the words "vocal restraints" in a personal fetish profile. Awesome! One of those things that makes me step back and sigh with pleasure, just imagining the possibilities of vocal restraints.
Of course I had to search for more of it, find out if the reality holds up to my concept of it. I found some really weird stuff. Beyond anything I'd imagined. Check out the link for China Doll. Pretty... interesting.
I prefer my version. Vocal restraints not being a gag but the use of the voice to control. But, that takes a commanding presence among other things. Maybe the gag version of the vocal restraint is more to the liking of the fast food sort of BDSM. It's easier, for sure.
But, why go for the easy way out?
Why not give your sub a command and expect it to be obeyed? It's what he says he wants, right?
Or does he... does he long for the time you will slip up and he can regain his freedom. Silly man.
The whole attraction of D/s to me is the control, the mind games. I like being in charge, knowing he is liking it too. Of course, he can't make it seem too easy, let me think he is liking it too much. Then I'd have to make it just a bit harder (literally) and a bit more challenging for both of us. Soft and nice has it's place, it can be part of Domming. Just think of soft and nice right before the axe falls. From tender to extreme is pretty effective.
That doesn't mean non-physical restraints need to give way to hard core bondage restraints. It just means I need to crack down and make sure he remembers which of us has the remote control and which is the innocent bystander. Speaking of remote controls... oh never mind, I'll save that for another column.
Soon I will find the little man I've wanted to torment for so long. It will be a lot of fun for both of us, but mostly for me. I have so many ideas along the lines of objectification, domestic discipline, humiliation and vocal restraints now too.
Cruising around, looking at useless stuff today and I came across the words "vocal restraints" in a personal fetish profile. Awesome! One of those things that makes me step back and sigh with pleasure, just imagining the possibilities of vocal restraints.
Of course I had to search for more of it, find out if the reality holds up to my concept of it. I found some really weird stuff. Beyond anything I'd imagined. Check out the link for China Doll. Pretty... interesting.
I prefer my version. Vocal restraints not being a gag but the use of the voice to control. But, that takes a commanding presence among other things. Maybe the gag version of the vocal restraint is more to the liking of the fast food sort of BDSM. It's easier, for sure.
But, why go for the easy way out?
Why not give your sub a command and expect it to be obeyed? It's what he says he wants, right?
Or does he... does he long for the time you will slip up and he can regain his freedom. Silly man.
The whole attraction of D/s to me is the control, the mind games. I like being in charge, knowing he is liking it too. Of course, he can't make it seem too easy, let me think he is liking it too much. Then I'd have to make it just a bit harder (literally) and a bit more challenging for both of us. Soft and nice has it's place, it can be part of Domming. Just think of soft and nice right before the axe falls. From tender to extreme is pretty effective.
That doesn't mean non-physical restraints need to give way to hard core bondage restraints. It just means I need to crack down and make sure he remembers which of us has the remote control and which is the innocent bystander. Speaking of remote controls... oh never mind, I'll save that for another column.
Soon I will find the little man I've wanted to torment for so long. It will be a lot of fun for both of us, but mostly for me. I have so many ideas along the lines of objectification, domestic discipline, humiliation and vocal restraints now too.
06 December 2010
Alien Abduction and the Submissive Man
I'm watching a show about alien abductions. Most of them are men. Talking and reporting about their experiences, how they have been abducted, restrained and forced to endure experiments on their body, sometimes sexual in nature.
I began to feel there is a strong link between men abducted by aliens and men who want to be dominated by women. Both want to have someone else take power away from them, use bondage, perform tests on them, possibly force them to have sex. I wonder if the ultimate fantasy is alien abduction where there is no possibility of having your wishes taken into consideration. Very little chance of communication or sympathy. Very little human interaction at all.
I began to feel there is a strong link between men abducted by aliens and men who want to be dominated by women. Both want to have someone else take power away from them, use bondage, perform tests on them, possibly force them to have sex. I wonder if the ultimate fantasy is alien abduction where there is no possibility of having your wishes taken into consideration. Very little chance of communication or sympathy. Very little human interaction at all.
29 October 2010
Does Anything Else Need to be Said?
20 April 2010
For Fictional Bondage Only: Objectification
Bondage in reality has to follow rules and we have to think of safety issues. You don't want to injure your little man, just torment him.
But, in fiction, bondage can go further, deeper and be far more evil. I remember a movie I watched (just the beginning) where the actor (possibly Clint Eastwood) was a soldier on the run from the other soldiers. Somehow he is taken in by a school for girls or some other type of women's group. They have their own building, that much was clear, and it is somewhere isolated. I forget if they find him and bring him in or if he finds them and asks/ begs/ bargains/ threatens his way in. However, it turns out that the women tie him down while he is unconscious and cut off his leg (some essential body part)/ It may have been due to a real injury or they were making sure he couldn't escape or cause them any harm. Either way he was now under their mercy and tender care. I don't remember more than that.
There is something erotic about bondage done to that extent. I am not looking for that in reality. But, in fiction, you can let your fetishy impulses run amok. No one real gets hurt. Though anyone finding out about your erotic fetish may never feel quite the same about you again.
Still, the appeal to me is not about cutting off body parts but the complete control and the extreme bondage.
I don't know how the movie ends, if they end up killing him (think The Collector) or if he escapes. I just like running scenes in my mind where the little man is in dire peril and can't escape.
Even today I was looking at the site that sells Real Dolls and came upon a picture of a real doll male torso. Of course it's just plastic (or some type of stuff like that) so there is no blood or gore or real violence. It is just meant to be a toy for those who don't want to deal with the whole body, arms and legs and the head just weight more and take up space. Right? This led me to the thought that arms and legs tend to get in the way. Even when you are writing a sex scene the arms and legs have to be kept track of and other than being used now and then, they do tend to get in the way.
How would it be to have just a male torso to play with? You'd have to keep the head of course. If only so you could listen to him protest, scream and beg for mercy. But, assuming you (or some of your friends) are able to perform the type of surgery that removes the arms and legs and then cauterizes the appendages so there isn't too much blood loss or other trauma. Once he heals and gets over some of the mental adjustment, you would have the ultimate bondage for that little man. He literally isn't going anywhere.
I know it's gross, sick and way over the scope of reality. I'd never want to do it in reality at all. It would be way too gross. It only has appeal in fiction, where I can focus on the bondage and the torment and the true evil and wickedness in the scenario.
Dollification - the process of evolving, mentally and physically, into a "living doll." Individuals who desire this process-as well as those who are in the midst of the process or have already achieved an end result-may be described as "dolls," and most desire as well to be owned. The parties involved in dollification are referred to as "Owner"and "doll"; this is comparable to a Master/slave or Dom/sub relationship.
The Doll Forum
Flickr: Male Doll Lovers
Wikipedia: Agalmatophilia - is a paraphilia concerned with the sexual attraction to a statue, doll, mannequin or other similar figurative object. The attraction may include the desire for actual sexual contact with the objects, a fantasy of having sexual (or non-sexual) encounters with the animate or inanimate instances of the preferred objects, the act of watching encounters between the objects themselves, or sexual pleasure gained from thoughts of being transformed or transforming another into the preferred object.
But, in fiction, bondage can go further, deeper and be far more evil. I remember a movie I watched (just the beginning) where the actor (possibly Clint Eastwood) was a soldier on the run from the other soldiers. Somehow he is taken in by a school for girls or some other type of women's group. They have their own building, that much was clear, and it is somewhere isolated. I forget if they find him and bring him in or if he finds them and asks/ begs/ bargains/ threatens his way in. However, it turns out that the women tie him down while he is unconscious and cut off his leg (some essential body part)/ It may have been due to a real injury or they were making sure he couldn't escape or cause them any harm. Either way he was now under their mercy and tender care. I don't remember more than that.
There is something erotic about bondage done to that extent. I am not looking for that in reality. But, in fiction, you can let your fetishy impulses run amok. No one real gets hurt. Though anyone finding out about your erotic fetish may never feel quite the same about you again.
Still, the appeal to me is not about cutting off body parts but the complete control and the extreme bondage.
I don't know how the movie ends, if they end up killing him (think The Collector) or if he escapes. I just like running scenes in my mind where the little man is in dire peril and can't escape.
Even today I was looking at the site that sells Real Dolls and came upon a picture of a real doll male torso. Of course it's just plastic (or some type of stuff like that) so there is no blood or gore or real violence. It is just meant to be a toy for those who don't want to deal with the whole body, arms and legs and the head just weight more and take up space. Right? This led me to the thought that arms and legs tend to get in the way. Even when you are writing a sex scene the arms and legs have to be kept track of and other than being used now and then, they do tend to get in the way.
How would it be to have just a male torso to play with? You'd have to keep the head of course. If only so you could listen to him protest, scream and beg for mercy. But, assuming you (or some of your friends) are able to perform the type of surgery that removes the arms and legs and then cauterizes the appendages so there isn't too much blood loss or other trauma. Once he heals and gets over some of the mental adjustment, you would have the ultimate bondage for that little man. He literally isn't going anywhere.
I know it's gross, sick and way over the scope of reality. I'd never want to do it in reality at all. It would be way too gross. It only has appeal in fiction, where I can focus on the bondage and the torment and the true evil and wickedness in the scenario.
Dollification - the process of evolving, mentally and physically, into a "living doll." Individuals who desire this process-as well as those who are in the midst of the process or have already achieved an end result-may be described as "dolls," and most desire as well to be owned. The parties involved in dollification are referred to as "Owner"and "doll"; this is comparable to a Master/slave or Dom/sub relationship.
The Doll Forum
Flickr: Male Doll Lovers
Wikipedia: Agalmatophilia - is a paraphilia concerned with the sexual attraction to a statue, doll, mannequin or other similar figurative object. The attraction may include the desire for actual sexual contact with the objects, a fantasy of having sexual (or non-sexual) encounters with the animate or inanimate instances of the preferred objects, the act of watching encounters between the objects themselves, or sexual pleasure gained from thoughts of being transformed or transforming another into the preferred object.
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