I've been having a good time reading blogs tonight and I have not got my important work done. Shame on me!
But, one more post before I hustle or just pack it in so I can get up in time for my appointment in the morning.
Vanilla Bigotry: As seen on ELust but originally from The Perverted Negress.
My comment:
I so agree about Vanilla Bigotry. That is something that has long bothered me too. I cringe a little every time someone uses that label. I think it is so wrong to have the attitude that everything and everyone not blatantly kinky is thereby vanilla. I especially love finding ordinary things and making them erotic or kinky, with the right person/ setting/ a little privacy. Also, to label someone vanilla without knowing all the intimate details of their romantic/ fantasy/ sexual lives is silly. In general, I just don't like the anti-vanilla attitude.
I would not want to live the lifestyle 24/7. It's not for me, mainly because I love just being me, all the parts of me not just sections of me. I don't want to have part of my life and the things I love forced to be strictly vanilla when I can usually find a way to enjoy them on a kinky level too. It is all a part of what makes me the whole person I am.
