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I edited out my location, that's just a bit too much to put out there. I am back to looking, less bright eyed and optimistic each time I try again. But, I do seem to keep picking myself up and trying again.

I want romance and bondage. I want to find a man who sincerely wants a relationship and D/s as a lifestyle. Not 24/7 - that would be too restrictive for me. I am my own person and I like having time to be me.

A man who is about my age (not much younger or older). A man who is large in height and not a thin guy either. I'm not thin and a bigger guy suits me. Must be local to the area. I've tried long distance and it does not work.


I know what being a Domme means to me and I won't be interested in any sub who tries various methods of topping from the bottom. Sharing ideas is one thing, giving me a grocery list of wants is another thing.  I don't like messy or extreme stuff. I like doing things my own way and in my own style. Teasing and coming up with new ways to torment a poor subbie is what I enjoy.

I do not want a guy who is desperate to serve. I want someone who stands on his own two feet, has outside interests and enjoys life. I want someone I can spend time with whether we hang out with coffee, take a road trip, or babysit my sister's kids. I'm a bit quiet and a bit  of an old fashioned nice girl. I'm also very creative and I like trying and learning new things.  What matters is intelligence, humour, grooming and spelling does count too.

If you are a single male sub in the area, in the 40-something age range send me a note. However, if you just want something female to screw, save your time and buy a blow up doll.