Originally posted to Adult BackWash: Wednesday October 29, 2003
The best part of my orgasm is the length of time I can hold onto it right after it starts. At first there is the build up, sometimes it builds slowly. Then that moment when time stops, that little death. It does seem you could die at that moment and not even know it. Then my orgasm starts, the juices flow and the muscles of my vagina contract over and over and over. I'm not sure if that's what they call a multi orgasm. The best part is how long I can keep it going before my fingers get tired or I just can't take any more without becoming vocal. I've spent too much time living with other people to let myself be loud.
My standard method is clit fingering these days. I'm an expert on my own clit and how to touch it just right. I don't get finicky and try different fingering. The same old rubs, strokes and touches work just fine. At some point I don't know exactly how I'm doing it just that I don't want to stop.
The clit stroking is nice too. Even though it's not the main event I do enjoy the build up, that feeling of getting wetter and tighter. Once in a while it's not enough and I want something inside my vagina. That's just the odd time and I often wonder if it's linked to my menstrual cycle in some way. We do get typical skin break outs, cravings, tender breasts and such just before it starts. Likely we can be different in our arousal too.
Do men have real orgasms? Or is it more of a sperm release than a whole body experience? I know men traditionally fall asleep after sex. I do too. Unless I'm too tired to stay awake I have an orgasm every night when I go to bed. I always thought most women did the same. It's a great way to fall asleep, doesn't cost a thing and is good for your body and mind.
