Mistress Sarah, my co-moderator in the BDSM commmunity, wrote about what she wants in a man. We don't want the same things. What does it say about a woman, to see what she wants in a man?
I want a man who will pick me up from work and tell me he has arranged a motel room for the night. We share the shower and then the bed. Later a pizza or Chinese take out.
I want a man who will notice when I flash him, even when he's busy with something else.
I want a man who will take his time shaving each morning, knowing how much I like watching him doing 'manly' things.
I want a man who likes a saucy wench and gives my bottom a smack.
I want a man who will wrestle with me but knows it can be just as much fun when he loses.
I want a man who knows I'm a lady but loves it when I treat him like a whore.
I want a man who loves my breasts but doesn't stop there - belly, thighs, back, bottom and all those other places I love to be touched, caressed, sucked and kneaded.
I want a man who will come fresh from the shower, lie on the bed and dare me to do my worst. I want to laugh and come up with new ways to out do whatever I did last time.
I want to fall asleep beside him, wake up in the middle of the night and tie him to the bed. I'd spend the night tormenting him, taking advantage of him and laughing with him about it all.
I want a man who will dare me to take off my panties in the restaurant, under the table and put them in his pocket.
I want a man who likes to make love outside, not for the risk of being caught but for the primitiveness of it.
I want a man who hears me run the shower and comes in to watch and scrub my back. I'd give him something to watch.
I want a man who can play the 'Daddy' games without just sounding like a dirty old man or some idiot with an erection.
I want to try a rape fantasy and kidnapping, with a man I trust and know well enough to enjoy those with. I want to do the same to him.
I've been considering attending one of those BDSM munches in my area. But, I don't have high hopes for meeting anyone. Part of the problem is that I want more than a dirty old man. I'd like someone who looks for more than relief for his blue ball problem when he meets women.
If I go to the munch I'll let you know.
