Women clean mess and men tend to make mess. There are exceptions. But, generally, women clean and men mess. Looking at links this morning, gathering porn for the masses, I started thinking about this whole mess issue.
Men talk about cum shots, cumming on her, and how it drips down her face, etc. My first reaction is ewww. In my mind I'm thinking about having that stuff on me. That mess. Then, how long do you have to wear that mess to make him happy? How will it feel when it's sliding along your skin, starting to feel more like cold muck and getting kind of crusty. Ewww. Messy! Icky!
I am willing to try this. You should try to try things before deciding you don't like them. But, I do have that whole ewww mess idea in my mind. Not that I'm a neat freak. It's just the idea of having mess on my skin. If it was just my shirt I could take that off and still be clean underneath.
Maybe for the men it's kind of marking their territory. That seems feasible since we know animals pee all over the place to mark their spots. Men are territorial. So maybe the cumming on their women is just proving that is their woman. Something like that.
I can see how for him it could be very erotic, even romantic in a way. Consider the whole swallowing issue. Do you? I haven't gone there yet. It won't be so new next time. It's a matter of deciding to do it. In a way it's kind of a shame women have the tidy gene to get over before doing any of this stuff. For him it could be a very personal thing, about trust and love. But for her it's about getting over that whole mess thing first.
