I found this in old stuff I had saved to a CD in 2004. I don't know where it originally came from. It was written for women to seduce their man - that much I did change myself. I get so fed up with the Cosmo Magazine version of how women should catch/ lure their man. Why is it Cosmo never writes about it the other way around? They make it seem women are desperate to get and keep a man, as if we have so little value. It irks me. For this, and other reasons, I haven't bought an issue of Cosmo Magazine since I was 20. I outgrew them.
- Genuine confidence begins with knowing your own body and mind.
- Knowledge is your ultimate love power.
- Develop good communication skills both in and out of the bedroom.
- Listen more than you speak, unless talk is related to both of you. Your conversation should always be positive and sensual.
- Be relaxed and self-assured.
- Know exactly what you're doing and why. Learn your woman's mind, emotions, body, and sex organs.
- Appeal to all her senses: touch, taste, smell, sight, and sound.
- Find the right lighting for the mood you want to set.
- Create a romantic atmosphere. Arrange furniture to suit your sexual expression.
- Make her feel comfortable and relaxed in your environment.
- Welcome her with her favorite beverages, snacks, and music.
- Show enthusiasm when she speaks; have a twinkle in your eye. Flirt.
- Value cleanliness. Both you and your woman should be able to lick, suck, probe, rub, squeeze, massage every square inch of one another without hygienic concerns or inhibitions.
- Go slow with all thoughts and actions. Be gentle and tender. Savor every moment. Tease.
- Kiss your woman as though it were the first time every time.
- Learn the art of massage -- of both body and mind.
- Listen to her body language and sounds. She will tell you all you need to know even if silently.
- Do what pleases you both.
- Explore. Be adventurous. Find the things that really turn her on. If she doesn't like something you're doing,
- move on. If she does, stay with it.
- Don't be afraid to experiment.
- Relish every part of her body as though it were your "last supper."
- Create your own fantasies and then live them.
