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04 March 2012

30 Days of Kink

Here are the questions for 30 Days of Kink. This will be a little project to work on.

  • Day 1: Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you? Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us. 
  • Day 2: List your kinks. 
  • Day 3: How did you discover you were kinky? 
  • Day 4: Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hinted at your kinks? 
  • Day 5: What was your first kinky sexual experience? If you haven’t had one yet, talk about what you hope to have happen. 
  • Day 6: Describe your weirdest/most interesting sexual fantasy. 
  • Day 7: What’s your favorite toy?  
  • Day 8: Post a kinky image you find erotic. 
  • Day 9: Post a kink related song or music video you enjoy. 
  • Day 10: What are your hard limits? 
  • Day 11: What are your views on the ethics of kink? 
  • Day 12: Tell us about a humorous BDSM/kink experience you’ve had. If you haven’t had one, talk about aspects of kink/BDSM you find funny. 
  • Day 13: Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink/BDSM is to you? Why are you drawn to what you’re drawn to? 
  • Day 14: How would you say real life BDSM/kink varies from fantasy BDSM/kink? If you haven’t experienced real life BDSM/kink how do you think it might differ? 
  • Day 15: Post a BDSM/kink activity you’re curious about and would like to try. 
  • Day 16: What are the most difficult aspects of having a sexuality that involves kink or BDSM for you personally? 
  • Day 17: What misconception about kinky people would you most like to clear up? 
  • Day 18: Any kinky/BDSM pet peeves? If so, what are they? 
  • Day 19: Any unexpected ways kink has improved your life? If so, what are they? 
  • Day 20: Talk about something within kink/BDSM that you’re curious about/don’t understand. 
  • Day 21: Favorite BDSM related book (fiction or non-fiction) 
  • Day 22: What do you think is important in keeping a BDSM relationship healthy? How does it differ from a vanilla relationship? 
  • Day 23: Since you first developed an interest in kink, have your interests/perspectives changed? How so? 
  • Day 24: What qualities do you look for in a partner? 
  • Day 25: How open are you about your kinks? 
  • Day 26: What’s your opinion on online BDSM play? 
  • Day 27: Do your non-kink interests ever find their way into your kinky activities? If so, how? 
  • Day 28: How do you dress for kink/BDSM play? What significance does your attire have to you? 
  • Day 29: Do you have a BDSM title (e.g. mistress, master, slut, pig, whore, princess, goddess, ma’am, sir)? What is your opinion of the use of titles in general? 
  • Day 30: Whatever BDSM/kink related thing you want to write about.